Positivity for Survival?

It’s good for our overall health to laugh and give thanks often, find moments of peace, and to practice joyfulness.

It’s good for our overall health to laugh and give thanks often, find moments of peace, and to practice joyfulness.

Why do we have positive emotions? What purpose other than making us “feel good” do they serve – especially as they relate to survival of the species? The survival value of negative emotions seems fairly obvious: Fear helps us avoid attackers, and disgust alerts us to poisons, and so forth. But what possible survival or evolutionary good are joy, contentment, gratitude, and curiosity?

University of North Carolina psychologist Barbara Fredrickson studies the behavior of young patas monkeys, who love to play tag on the savannahs of West Africa, as both an example and metaphor for her “broaden and build” theory of positive emotions. When they are being chased, young patas monkeys will  fling themselves on to saplings, which bend and catapult them in unexpected directions.

The young monkeys are engaging in what appears to be pointless fun – just for the sheer joy of it. In fact, their joy and play are creating a reserve of body memories that later could keep them alive. In adulthood, when fleeing a predator, they will fling themselves on to saplings, which bend and catapult them to escape.

Fredrickson’s theory is positive emotions are life savers. Fredrickson believes these emotions increase cognitive flexibility, conquer harmful negativity, and create a reservoir of resilience that helps us cope with life’s challenges. She has published her studies in a new book, Positivity (Crown Publishers).

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Making It Happen in Writing!

Stop reading this article, get a piece of paper and a pen, and do this exercise RIGHT NOW!

Stop reading this article, get a piece of paper and a pen, and do this exercise RIGHT NOW!

You’ve probably heard and seen them all – sure-fire ways to manifest what you want. Here’s a rather simple method that takes your ideas out of your head and gives them a head-start (so to speak) by manifesting your goals in writing first. This starting point seems to set them up for manifestation and is a lot of fun to boot.

Some years ago, Ranae Johnson, the originator of Rapid Eye Technology, kept a shoe box in which we placed such papers – like a wish list. I don’t know what happened to the box. I do know what happened to my life – it took off in the directions I wrote about – BIG TIME.

Write out what you want on a piece of paper:

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Suppressed Emotions Can Hurt You

Mental stress can harm you.According to a study of healthy women by Dr. Philippe R. Goldin and associates of the Department of Psychology at Stanford University, published in Biological Psychiatry, emotional suppression strategies actually increased the activity of the emotional areas of the amygdala and insula. In contrast, re-evaluation strategies in which one reconsiders the meaning of an event or situation, tended to significantly lower the activity of these brain regions.

Basically, when you suppress an emotion, you still feel it and your body must account for the increased chemical activity – usually resulting in illness or later increased emotional expression. On the other hand, re-evaluation of the judgment one gives their experience tends to significantly decrease the chemical activity of emotional brain areas – and leads to far less emotional expression later.

I recommend the same for men as well. When you feel angry for whatever reason, if you will take a step back in your mind, disengage with the object of your anger, and reconsider your judgments about it, you may find that you’ll feel better. And even more importantly, you’ll feel better later.

Perhaps the greatest emotion generating judgment we have is the need to be right. The energy we expend on our crusades rivals those of the middle ages – often giving us similar results: less energy overall, impoverished relationships, and overall poorer health. It’s wise and prudent to reconsider your positions in relation to others. It may be okay for more than one person to be right. It may be okay to let someone else have their opinion.

If you find you’re having trouble reconsidering your judgments, you might find value in a therapy like Rapid Eye Technology, EFT, hypnosis, or CBT.

CAM in the USA

Approximately 38 percent of adults in the United States aged 18 years and over and nearly 12 percent of U.S. children aged 17 years and under use some form of complementary and alternative medicine (CAM)

Approximately 38 percent of adults in the United States aged 18 years and over and nearly 12 percent of U.S. children aged 17 years and under use some form of complementary and alternative medicine (CAM)

According to the newest figures from the 2007 National Health Interview Survey (NHIS), an annual study in which tens of thousands of Americans are interviewed about their health- and illness-related experiences, developed by the National Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine (NCCAM), a part of the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS), a part of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately 38 percent of adults in the United States aged 18 years and over and nearly 12 percent of U.S. children aged 17 years and under use some form of complementary and alternative medicine (CAM).

That’s a lot of therapy outside the mainstream of “traditional” American medicine. According to the survey, most of the care was for pain. The higher the level of education and socioeconomic level, the more likely the use of CAM. As CAM is rarely covered by US insurance carriers, more wealthy people are more likely to be able to afford such care.

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The REAL Secret

Compassionate Healing

Compassionate Healing, A Surrogate Approach is available at CreateSpace.

Compassionate Healing, A Surrogate Approach – Based on years of  seminar presentations on the subject of proxy healing.

Surrogate (or Proxy) Healing uses a person’s own judgments and perceptions to heal. It is the secret “Back Door” to your most powerful healing faculties.

As you become more skilled in the use of surrogacy, you will discover untapped potential for individual and planetary healing unimagined otherwise.

In this book, you’ll learn how to turn the negative emotions and energies of others into a beneficial force – until all are healed and the world awakens into the light of real physical, emotional, and mental health.

This book presents fundamentals and specific methods and tactics for surrogate or proxy healing.

Healers, learn how you can affect change in resistant clients, help clients more easily heal their relationship problems, turn troubled teens into super-healers, speed healing after surgery, and much more using this amazing attribute of the human mind.

You can apply the techniques offered in this book to any healing modality and to yourself personally. You may use the technique to amplify empathy and thereby help resolve many issues in the process.
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Side Effect: Death?

Read the labels carefully. They're regulated because they can kill you!

Read the labels carefully. They’re regulated because they can kill you!

How many times have you heard or seen on TV the glowing reports of some miracle drug that is supposed to cure what ails you? And, along with the report/advertisement is a long list of side effects and possible conflicts with other meds or conditions. “Side effects include… [long list of sometimes life-threatening side effects]…” An example of serious side effects are those found with usage of anticonvulsant medications that may be associated with increased risk of suicide*.

The reason we can’t just “make a pill for that” is because we don’t yet understand enough about the physical body to interact with it in unnatural ways – like medication – without disturbing a functioning system (even when that system is mal-functioning).

I am SO grateful that we have medications for so many things that used to kill folks young (well, younger than me, anyway!). Without “miracle” drugs, those with a ruptured appendix would have died instead of recovered. The flu would have killed millions each year. Smallpox, polio, dengue and other deadly diseases would run rampant and decimate humanity. We owe much to the pharmaceutical industry.

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