Reach for the Sun, Partner!

Reach for the Sun to Feel Better

Reach for the Sun to Feel Better.

Researchers at the Max Planck Institute have discovered that when you are involved in movements in an upward direction you are more likely to have positive emotions and thoughts; and conversely, working in a downward direction tends to elicit more negative emotions and thoughts – metaphoric movements that match our language, feeling “up” or feeling “down.”

“These [study] data suggest that spatial metaphors for emotion aren’t just in language,” researcher Daniel Casasanto says, “linguistic metaphors correspond to mental metaphors, and activating the mental metaphor ‘good is up’ can cause us to think happier thoughts.”

I’m reminded of the Yogic Sun Salutation exercise in which one stretches one’s arms upward toward the sun as far as he/she can reach in a gesture of acknowledgement of the sun. The movement is also used to elevate mood and elicit more positive emotions during times of depression.

Perhaps one way to beat depression is to simply salute the heavens by reaching up as far as you can often during the day – while simultaneously elevating the thoughts and emotions. It’s certainly worth a trial run, I figure.

Study Source: Daniel Casasanto, Ton Dijkstra, Max-Planck-Gesellschaft

Taking Responsibility

I like the idea of saying to myself (maybe as a mantra), “I am experiencing EXACTLY what I WANT to experience right now or I’d be experiencing something else. I am doing exactly what I most want to do right now or I’d be doing something else. I have exactly what I want to have right now or I’d have something else.” (BE-DO-HAVE) I believe that when you adopt this as a personal truth, you tend to take responsibility for your life and magical things start to happen. For one, when YOU are the responsible party, YOU have the power to make changes – NOT because you don’t like what you have; rather, because you LOVE what you have and want to experience something ELSE you love.

If you want to make a substantial change in your life, consider taking responsibility for your life – acknowledge that you are, do, and have what you currently experience because you WANT TO. How you feel about what you experience is your PAYOFF. Embrace your payoff – you love it, after all – and you’ve gone to some effort and energy to achieve it. Then look into what OTHER PAYOFF you might enjoy JUST AS MUCH and begin embracing that instead. You might also enjoy achieving your current payoff in a different manner. Like the kid in the sandbox making a sand castle, you can play with your design as much as you wish until you get it “just right” – that is, you experience sufficient sensational payoff.

Why Energy Therapies Might Work

Cellular biologist, Dr. Bruce Lipton, shares his understanding of biology and beliefs. I picked out several salient points:

  • Environment (energy fields) controls biology
  • Conscious mind is tiny and weak compared to subconscious mind
  • Setting intent without engaging the subconscious mind DOES NOT WORK
  • Your subconscious programming runs your life
  • Your fate in life is not determined by your DNA
  • Genes are not the limiting factor in your life – your mind is.

Although this video presentation is about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), it could just as easily apply to Rapid Eye Technology.

First Impressions Rule

When faced with making a first impression, make it count! Please!

When faced with making a first impression, make it count! Please!

“Imagine you have a new colleague at work and your impression of that person is not very favorable. A few weeks later, you meet your colleague at a party and you realize he is actually a very nice guy. Although you know your first impression was wrong, your gut response to your new colleague will be influenced by your new experience only in contexts that are similar to the party. However, your first impression will still dominate in all other contexts.” – Bertram Gawronski, Canada Research Chair at The University of Western Ontario

First impressions are difficult to overcome – ‘you never get a second chance to make a first impression’.  A study reported in Journal of Experimental Psychology, bears this out. They were able to scientifically demonstrate this thinking error. They were able to show rather conclusively that a first impression tends to apply to all contexts (the rule) whereas contradictory evidence tends to apply only to certain contexts (exceptions to the rule).

First impressions can be changed. It’s not easy, though:

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Memories and Your Future

Change your perception of the past and you can take charge of your future.

Change your perception of the past and you can take charge of your future.

“Our findings provide compelling support for the idea that memory and future thought are highly interrelated and help explain why future thought may be impossible without memories.” (Karl Szpunar, lead author of a study on the relationship between memory and future thought and a psychology doctoral student in Arts & Sciences at Washington University.)

Suicidally depressed people “don’t remember particularly what happened last month and they can’t really tell you much of anything about what they envision happening next week.” (Szpunar)

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